Blogger is getting on my nerves. Cant upload any pictures and its getting suckier everytime.

Anway, I was bloghopping and I found something veryyy interesting at someone's blog.

It's very long but Im gonna take out only the important parts.

READ.

The Awful Truth About Guys.


The 'He's afraid to get hurt again' excuse. If he were in love with you, he wouldn't be able to help himself from getting involved in a romantic relationship regardless of his fear or past experience.If something is wrong in a relationship, there's a bright, mature idea: Talk about it. Don't let any man blame you for his infidelity. Ever.

Lets call cheating what it is: a complete betrayal of trust.There is no excuse for cheating. Let me say it again. There is no excuse for cheating. Now you say it. There is no excuse for cheating. Cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter whom it was with or how many times it happened.

The 'But he misses me' excuse. Don't be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You're deeply miserable. However, hes still the same person who just broke up with you and tore your heart apart. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because hes choosing, every day, not to be with you.

MY FAVOURITE PART:

The "But then he wants to get back together' excuse. This is what that guy is doing during your relationship recess: Hes sniffing around for something better, and when he doesn't find it, he gets lonely and comes "home". Its not that hes so into you. Its that hes so not into being alone. Deciding to get back together with someone is a complicated and difficult decision. Just remember that the person you are getting back together with is the same fool who, not long before, looked you in your beautiful face, took full stock of you and your qualities, and told you that he was no longer in need of your company.

One simple rule, ladies: Always be classy. Never be crazy. You cant talk your way out of a breakup. It is not up for discussion. A breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic one. There's a guy out there who's going to be really happy that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend.

Don't ask yourself what you did wrong or how you could have done it differently. Don't waste your valuable heart and mind trying to figure out why he did what he did. Or thinking back on all the things he said, and wondering what was the truth and what was the lie. The only thing you need to know is that its really good news: He's gone.

AND AND, No matter how powerful and real your feelings may be for someone, if that person cannot fully and honestly return them and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing.

Forget about him and his good qualities. Even forget about his bad ones. Forget about all his excuses and what he promises. Ask yourself one question only: Is he making you happy?

The 'He's really trying to be better' excuse. Try not to be three years into a relationship when it suddenly dawns of you that the guy you're with is a big, selfish jerk. Chances are, 'Jerk Boy' has been trying to show you who he is since day one. You already have one asshole. You don't need another.You are exceptional, but not the exception! Please remember that.

Well, that really made my day. I feel much better now. Though I broke up with Farhan since 23rd March 2009, I never felt good about it till I read this. Ohh and in case anyone here who doesnt know the real story about why we broke up, lemme tell you its his fault and I left him, not the other way round. I wont elaborate more on what happened because I dont find it necessary. He knows his HUGE mistakes. Lemme repeat, mistakes. Not A mistake but mistakeS. So there really isnt a need for to tell the whole world what happened. We are no longer talking nor smsing one another anymore and Im totally fine with it.

Ive moved on. Totally.

PS: This has been my longest singlehood period. Since March till almost August? Im so proud of myself! :)))

this is lina ~ 1:14 PM